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Here comes the rain again...




I enjoy rain...but not for 10+ days straight...so if you notice I'm off of my normal schedule, that's why!

So: https://allmylinks.com/mistressdj (has all my links!)

I'm even on AVN stars: https://stars.avn.com/mistressdj

And you know I can always be found on Niteflirt
flrt.me/MistressDJ

Holiday Line will be Open the 28th-31st

The holiday line will be open the 28th-31st - $1.00 a minute and all are wel-cum (welcome!)


I am not a fan of Halloween, but I will be offering some "themed" mp3's and customs will be on sale those days...

so, get ready!!




The Goodies Store

In order to make this easy: 


I am categorizing all the kinds of goodies / Niteflirt clips I have here on the blog! Click to go to the store you desire:


These pages will be updated regularly with new offerings!











an ode to a Dom/Domme

Ok, ode might be a bit of a stretch.

To those that dare take control of one whom no one knows what to do with...

To those that dare set boundaries and standards for those that typically answer to no one...

To those that educate themselves, not just in BDSM, but on the submissive themself....

To those that give reprieve in power exchange, only if for a few moments....

What You do is important. What You do matters, if to no one else? to the one who is submitting to You.

What You give, when you deliver this control over the sub or switch is relief. Relief of making decisions, relief of responsibility, relief of being in charge and even often sexual relief. Just like in typical D/s typically the sub is a strong person who is looking for this relief. To Top a switch is no different.

I personally have Dommed typical subs as well as switches and subbed as well.

I am from the school of thought that good Doms/Dommes have experienced the other end of the whip as it were (whether literal or in the receiving end of mind-fuckery.) This is simply because then when it's their turn to top, they know exactly what it feels like to experience what it is they are about to deliver.

So, to those Domming - my peers, those looking into D/s  Being the Dom/Domme is so much more than whips and chains, so much more than sexual fulfillment or mental fuckery. You are bringing people peace of mind and the deepest of calm.

What we do matters. It isn't flippant, nor is it a game.

I challenge anyone reading this who Doms...to take them higher...






The Elfin Files -- A night in the life of a Domme

For starters, I'm not here to out anyone. As a Dominatrix with a couple of decades under my leather, some nights...we're called to step up. I had two different individuals contact me. One, I could tell he was having a hard time, but then he vocalized it "I'm struggling." It was a short call on Niteflirt, and a message that let me know he wasn't doing as well as he could. I tasked him with an assignment, a maintenance spanking with a full report back to me when complete. This seemed to soothe the sub-fever...no pics as his report was in a video...but long story short... he's going through changes in his life, new found freedom, if you will...and is now alone at holiday season time...so if nothing else I occupied his mind and time for a bit...


The second one made an attempt to reach out to me on social media, alebeit an awkward one...but, little did "she" know I had a plan...

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First: an elf plug.



Next: the superhero elfin outfit



Finally: a "male human disguise" over her elfin self...this time of year humans would just bug our elfin friends anyhow...

Just watch me now. (All eyes on me)



Some great new goodies for sale....





******************************** With the onset of fall there will be many great things coming!

Stay tuned!!!

In the meantime: with the change of seasons, a pedicure would be great! I'm going to put this here for whoever would like to treat me to a pedi! Remember, you get to pick the color and get pics too!

Thanks in advance.

On this 9-11....no radio silence from me.

See the source image

17 years ago...something crazy happened. A country song I love says "A sucker punch came flying from somewhere in the back...." Here's the deal: whether it was some sort of Illuminati move or the Rothschild family....some church/religion/movement or some sort of an inside crazy something...(Or, if Osama bin Laden coordinated it as the timeline states) Here is what I know: This country I was born in raised in...the one I would march proudly in my red, white and blue twirling my baton for the parade....the one that I love coming back to after global travels...it was attacked that day.

2977 people (and 19...well...) lost their lives that day. There were moments that redefines heroes - FDNY and first responders rushing into buildings as people were rushing or jumping out...people on planes taking the planes down so no more than needed suffer....people helping people...Americans helping Americans...all those that were moved to sign up for the military the next day.... I am by no means a flag waving Go 'murica kinda gal.... this was my Kennedy. I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing. Most years I go to radio silence....I am quiet, and somber...and remember.... this year in the face of a split country, in the face of racism, in the face of it all going wrong...I want to say: "I love this country! I am grateful for the men and women who bravely and proudly serve so I can live this crazy life I love! I can speak my opinions, I can be a Domme, I can pursue life, liberty and happiness!" Live loudly Live boldly. We live in the best country on this planet! Flaws and all!

Talk to me...





"Talk To Me"

When you're having those days when you're feeling deserted
And everyone leaves you on hold
When none of your friends seem to care what you're doin'
And you're feeling old, out in the cold
When the only thing left of romance is a memory
And your memory's not strong
Whenever your clouds lose their silvery lining
I'll keep you warm, out of the storm

You don't need no psychiatry
Come on baby you can talk to me
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
You don't need to be hypnotized
Lay down here and look me in my eyes
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
Won't you talk to me
Come on and talk to me
Oh talk to me

When you're feeling the blues and there's no one to lean on
When nobody makes you belong
You need to be safe in the arms of a someone
Who'll make you strong, it won't take long
If you're lookin' for someone that you can believe in
Let that someone be me
Can't think of a thing that some lovin' can't handle
Let's make a start, give me your heart

You don't need no psychiatry
Come on baby you can talk to me
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
You don't need to be hypnotized
Lay down here and look me in my eyes
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
Talk to me
Oh won't you talk to me
Oh, keep on talking to me
You gotta, you gotta talk to me

A collaboration with two veteran Niteflirt Alphas?? oh yes! Myrtle Beach The Movie--

There is something in the works. Something big. Myrtle Beach the Movie -- it's an open call to the country -- hell to the world to be a part of stepping outside of how art is created. Music, passion, fetish, images, clothing, deviance, truth and stories that happen in this crazy thing we call life.

This is just a taste-- A dark Dom in his Dungeon, summoning, playing and lurking...creating from the darkness...

A Dominatrix...a bellydancer -- moving like a snake -- pulling you into her world....

This is just the beginning -- we are basically giving this away -- why?? because we want to rock your world.

If I can bring 25% of it....

Ok ya'll...so you who know me,  -- know about Phantom. (My first and I guess only real Dom-though we were miles apart and the one who inspired me--ok it was initially an assignment-- to make mp3s and various creations.) You also know that I have a small percentage (very small) of switch in me, and only to a unicorn or possibly a Sith Lord that knows how to access it. Well, occasionally, I've liked to find inspiration to remind me of why I do what I do -- and to remind me to bring it full throttle to ya'll...Needless to say, as you know Phantom (no, I still won't type his name! how many years later?!) passed 3 years or so ago...so I can no longer go back to the well for inspiration. (outside of various letters etc, but not the same as a conversation.) 

BUT, I happened across a place--that in my mind "had potential" to be that inspiration. (no, I'm not telling you where.) Then I happened across an individual - one who makes me want to raise My game as a Domme/artist and one who reminded me of that flight to subspace (it'd been a while since I took that journey.)

So, buckle up! It's a little like striking a vein of gold and knowing there is soooo much more below...and this Domme was reminded of why I do what I do...and to what level to bring it.

May the Force be with you if I get to drink from the well with any regularity (you're going to need it!)


anyone else excited about the upcoming nuptuals of Harry and Meghan?

Taken from the Wikipedia regarding the Marriage of Harry and Meghan:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_of_Prince_Harry_and_Meghan_Markle


Harry and Meghan attending church on Christmas Day, 2017

Prince Henry of Wales, known as Prince Harry,[2][notes 2] is the second son of Charles, Prince of Wales and Diana, Princess of Wales. He and Meghan Markle, an American actress best known for her role in the American legal-drama television series Suits, have been in a relationship since June 2016. The relationship was first acknowledged on 8 November 2016, when an official statement was released from the royal family's communications secretary addressing the "wave of abuse and harassment" directed toward Markle.[3]

On 27 November 2017, Clarence House announced that Prince Harry would marry Meghan Markle in the spring of 2018.[4] They were engaged earlier the same month in London, with the Prince giving Markle a bespoke engagement ring made by Cleave and Company, consisting of a large central diamond from Botswana, with two smaller diamonds from his mother's jewellery collection.[5] At the same time, it was announced that they would live at Nottingham Cottage in the grounds of Kensington Palace following their marriage.[6]


The Queen and the Duke of Edinburgh expressed their delight at the news, while congratulations came in from various political leaders, including the British Prime Minister, Theresa May, and the Leader of the Opposition, Jeremy Corbyn. After the announcement, the couple gave an exclusive interview to Mishal Husain of BBC News.[6]


Markle will be the second American[notes 3] and the first person of mixed race heritage to marry into the British royal family.[7] The engagement announcement prompted much comment about the possible social significance of Meghan Markle becoming a proudly mixed-race royal.[8][9][10][11][12]

Since Harry was fifth in the line of succession to the British throne at the time of his engagement,[13] he obtained the Queen's permission to marry under the Succession to the Crown Act 2013, which allows the monarch to approve or disapprove marriages of the first six persons in the line of succession.[14] The Queen's consent was declared to the Privy Council of the United Kingdom on 14 March 2018.[15]

Although Markle attended a private Catholic school in her early years, she did not identify as Roman Catholic.[16] On 6 March 2018, she was baptised and confirmed into the Church of England by the Archbishop of Canterbury Justin Welby at St. James's Palace.[17] The Church no longer denies marriage to divorced persons with a living spouse.[18][19] After the engagement, Markle began the years-long process of becoming a British citizen.[20] She will retain her U.S. citizenship during the process,[21] but Kensington Palace have indicated that the decision on whether she will retain dual nationality has not yet been made.[20] The couple was invited to celebrate Christmas 2017 with the royal family at the Queen's Sandringham estate.[22] The official engagement photographs were taken by Alexi Lubomirski, a former assistant to Mario Testino, at Frogmore House, and were issued by Kensington Palace on 21 December 2017.[23]

Wedding


St George's Chapel, Windsor

Mounted soldiers of the Blues and Royals (Royal Horse Guards and 1st Dragoons); the Blues and Royals, Prince Harry's old regiment, and part of the Household Cavalry, will ride as an escort in the procession.

The wedding is to take place on 19 May 2018 at St George's Chapel, Windsor.[24] The venue was previously the site for the weddings of Prince Harry's uncle, the Earl of Wessex, and his cousin, Peter Phillips, as well as the blessing for the marriage of the Prince of Wales and the Duchess of Cornwall, Harry's stepmother.[25]

Experts expect the wedding to cost around ₤500,000;[26] the royal family have announced that they will pay for the wedding.[27] In December 2017 Israeli designer Inbal Dror was asked to submit designs for a wedding dress.[28][29] As of January 2018, British designer Stewart Parvin is the bookmakers' favourite to design her wedding dress.[30]


The British government has stated the wedding day is not planned to be a bank holiday, as was done for the wedding of Prince William and Catherine Middleton.[31] Kensington Palace subsequently announced that the wedding is to be held on Saturday 19 May 2018, the same date as the FA Cup Final, which Prince Harry's brother William normally attends in his role as President of the Football Association.[32] Holding the royal wedding on a weekend is a break with the royal tradition of having weddings on a weekday.[33] On 12 February 2018, Kensington Palace announced that the ceremony will occur at 12:00 PM BST. Following the ceremony, there will be a carriage procession through Windsor after the ceremony as well as two receptions. The first reception, for those attending the ceremony, will be hosted by the Queen and will take place in St. George's Hall after the carriage procession. A second reception at Frogmore House, for family and close friends and hosted by the Prince of Wales, will occur later in the day.[34]


Approximately 250 members of the British Armed Forces were announced to be contributing to the wedding, the majority coming from units that have a connection with Prince Harry:[35]



Wedding party

On 26 April 2018, Kensington Palace announced that Prince Harry had selected his older brother, Prince William, Duke of Cambridge, as best man.[36][37] There was initially no confirmation as to whether Prince William would miss the FA Cup Final, which he would normally attend in his role as President of The Football Association, or if he would be able to attend both the wedding and the football. A statement from Kensington Palace that the timing of the wedding would not clash with the match was released in December 2017.[38] However, it was confirmed in March that the Duke would not be attending the final that day.[39]

There were suggestions that, in a break with tradition, the bride would have a maid of honour,[notes 9] with her friend Jessica Mulroney rumoured to be chosen.[40][41] In early May 2018, there was confirmation that there would be no maid of honour, and that the bridesmaids and page boys would all be children.[42]

Wedding service

Meghan Markle will be escorted down the aisle by her father, while Prince Harry's aunt, Baroness Fellowes, will deliver a reading.[42] The Dean of Windsor, David Conner, will conduct the service with the Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby, performing the marriage ceremony. The sermon will be delivered by The Most Reverend Michael Curry, presiding bishop and primate of the Episcopal Church (the American member church of the Anglican Communion).[34][43]

Music

Two choirs, an orchestra and fanfare trumpeters provided music for the service. The orchestra was made up of musicians from the BBC National Orchestra of Wales, the English Chamber Orchestra and the Philharmonia Orchestra. In addition to the Choir of St George's Chapel, the Kingdom Choir, a gospel group, will also perform, while the State Trumpeters of the Household Cavalry will provide the fanfare. The State Trumpeters will include Kate Sandford, thus making her the first female state trumpeter at a British royal wedding.[44] The music was under the overall direction of James Vivian, the chapel's Organist and Director of Music; the Kingdom Choir was conducted by Karen Gibson, while the orchestra was conducted by Christopher Warren-Green.[45][46]

Guests

In April 2018, it was announced that an "official list" of domestic and international political leaders was not required for the wedding and that Prime Minister Theresa May, Leader of the Opposition Jeremy Corbyn, and other leaders would not be attending the ceremony. President of the United States Donald Trump is believed not to have been sent an invitation. This is in contrast to the wedding of Prince Harry's elder brother, which had a large number of such guests due to his position as a future monarch.[47] The decision not to invite political leaders to the wedding was taken in part due to the size of the venue, and also taking into account Prince Harry's position as sixth in line to the throne.[47]

With a smaller ceremony and reception at St George's Hall, the guest list includes approximately 600 people, most of whom have a "direct relationship" with the couple.[48] Also, 200 close friends of the couple have been invited to attend the evening reception at Frogmore House.[1] In addition, approximately 1,200 members of the public are invited to greet the couple outside the chapel on the grounds of Windsor Castle.[48]


Sarah, Duchess of York, the former wife of Prince Andrew, has been invited to the wedding even though she had not been invited to the weddings of Prince William and Catherine Middleton in 2011, Peter Phillips and Autumn Kelly in 2008 and Zara Phillips and Mike Tindall in 2011. However, she has not been invited to the evening reception at Frogmore House hosted by Prince Charles and is reportedly "deeply upset" by her exclusion.[49]

Charitable donations

In April 2018, the couple announced that, rather than sending wedding gifts, people should make a charitable donation. They announced a list of seven individual organisations, none of which they had a formal association with, that they had nominated to benefit from such donations:[50]
  • CHIVA (Children's HIV Association): The small charity supports more than 1,000 young people living with HIV in the UK and Ireland.
  • Crisis: The national homeless body works with thousands of people a year to help rebuild their lives.
  • The Myna Mahila Foundation: The organisation, based in Mumbai, helps empower women through offering stable employment and breaking cultural taboos around menstrual hygiene. Myna Mahila also teaches women life skills such as maths, English and self defence.
  • Scotty's Little Soldiers: The charity supports children who have lost a parent while serving in the British Armed Forces.
  • StreetGames: The organisation uses sport to help young people and communities become healthier and safer.
  • Surfers Against Sewage: The national marine conservation body works to protect oceans, beaches, waves and wildlife.
  • The Wilderness Foundation UK: Vulnerable teenagers from urban communities are taught about the great outdoors and rural employment opportunities.

Coverage

Coverage of the royal wedding will air on BBC One, ITV, and Sky News in the UK.

BBC

Huw Edwards will host coverage for BBC TV with Desert Island Discs host Kirsty Young and BBC Radio 2 DJ Dermot O'Leary. On BBC Radio, Chris Evans and Scarlett Moffatt will co-host.

ITV

Phillip Schofield and Julie Etchingham will host coverage for ITV.

Sky

Kay Burley, Anna Botting and Alastair Bruce, among others, will host coverage for Sky.

Title

Traditionally, royal princes have been awarded substantive titles prior to their marriages; this occurred with both of Prince Harry's uncles, the Duke of York and Earl of Wessex, as well as his elder brother, the Duke of Cambridge. In the event that Prince Harry is awarded a title, his wife would automatically receive the equivalent spousal title (e.g. if he is made a duke, then she would automatically become a duchess). Should no title be awarded, Markle will assume the title HRH Princess Henry of Wales.[notes 10][54][55]



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I think I may organize a watching party, particularly for the sissies, anglophiles or anyone that wants to play along -- however, proper dress is going to be encouraged. As are proper manners!!

...but am i?

Something that came to mind today while I was on the phone and creating some mp3's. Many of my callers seem to have a genuine fear or concern that "they are the only one" that ever thought _______

9.7 /10 times they are not...very rarely does someone come up with something so out there, so unique I've not heard of it before...

so this is for you: the new caller, the new sub, the new seeker....(capitalization based on BDSM protocols) This isn't a real life conversation/poem, but it could be...my heart breaks for those that feel alone and it is one more reason I do what I do.



...but am i??

i seek to serve a Domme, one who will be my Goddess;

a beauty with wisdom beyond my comprehension.

A Woman so clearly out of my league, yet i'm compelled;

compelled to reach out to seek Her.

i find Her, a wonder with grey eyes and a quick wit.

One who speaks very matter-of-factly but isn't cruel.

but...i have a secret.

i've not spoken of it to anyone.

i like to wear panties and pretend i'm a girl.

i call this Marvel; She listens--without interruption to my tale.

i ask her rhetorically, "It seems that i must be the only one that does this??"

She is thoughtful, choosing words like daggers to throw precisely.

"No, there are many men that wish to be a woman and visa- versa.

rarely is someone so far  out there that they are the only one."

i pause...my voice cracking...."but am i?"

About ruined orgasms

Ruined orgasms:

If you're in orgasm denial training, your Masturbatrix might decide to allow you an orgasm at some point: but she may decide that it will be a ruined orgasm. When your Masturbatrix gives you a ruined orgasm she will stimulate you (or allow you to stimulate yourself) to the "point of no return", where an orgasm is going to happen - and she removes her hand (or other source of erotic stimulation), and allows the ejaculation to occur, with severely diminished or absent normal feelings of orgasmic pleasure and release.

Why would a Masturbatrix want to ruin your orgasm? Why not just deny you all together? Well for one - if you have any orgasm, full or ruined, you will stop your whining and begging for release. Although we Masturbation Mistressess do love to hear your pleas of passion, there comes a time when it gets too much. A ruined orgasm will give us respite from the begging.

Another reason: It's so FUNNY, to see the look on the poor cockstroker's face, going from ecstasy to "what the hell!", when he realizes that you've taken your hand away, yet his penis refuses to engage the "Reverse" gear - Penis is going for it, whether Hand is there or not. So the cockstroker knows, it will be a while before he gets to play the orgasm lottery again.

As for what the stroke trainees think about ruined orgasm vs. no orgasm, it's pretty much a 50-50 split. Everyone loves an orgasm, of course, but orgasm denial devotees love that turned on, needing, desparate feeling: and with any orgasm, ruined or complete, in exchange for a few seconds of bliss and a bit of release, he relinquishes that desperate feeling he so loves.

Blue balls

Blue balls is a slang term for the condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. The term is thought to have originated in the United States, first appearing in 1916. Some urologists call the condition "epididymal hypertension".

...an experience with a Phone Mistress (by yours truly!)

Sexual Encounter-
It all began so simple - an ad for a phonesex company.
An image, a promotional blurb a resume of filth and of kink. A desire that was contained in her grey eyes - was that a wall of restraint or torturous gates keeping him out?
Then she sent him a text/sext--she commanded 'I want to talk to you'.. 'I want you to stroke for me'.. 'Isn't it time you gave up control?'..
His heart pounding so strongly was it fear or lust?
Imagining all of dark fantasies that had lingered for many years before....
Pictures imagined and expectations created...
He dialed the phone...igniting ignition for his rocket ship.
She answered with "Hello, who is this?"
She has everything prepared, like an exquisite execution of a blueprint. She needed no introduction...
he gave her a name...a name to be called with trembling and trepidation in his voice...
'Why are you shaking pet? ', 'Are you afraid? '
he cannot answer...between his raging erection and her low calm tone he's slipping under into subspace.
'I feel so funny...' he says, unable to formulate what he's feeling.
'That's normal, that's subspace...just savor it." the Mistress reassures.
She uses him as her play thing as long as she wishes...all night long. He wonders if it's sexually exciting for her too, but he dare not ask.
He is her slave for the moment. She can have him any way she could imagine.
He could spend hours between her legs; at her feet; at her whims.
'Get on your knees, pet and wait.'
She speaks of edging, of control and of chastity.
She explains as a pet nothing is his.
His cock, his time and his wallet are all hers to do with as she will.

It feels as if months had gone by in his mind until the next time he can speak to The One..
She asks him if he wants to stay, to live in her world forever? She gives him assignments to soothe his sub-frenzy... But before he can think to answer;  She has vanished...she now dwells deep in the recesses of his mind as well as his loins...


To be continued....


Clothespins and BDSM

Clothespins can be a wonderful addition to BDSM play and are relatively easy to learn how to use. Many new comers to BDSM start with things like clothespins. Clothespins are usually used to give the sensation of pain to certain body parts. They can create many sensations and even increase the intensity of orgasm. With some caution and imagination clothespins can be used in any number of deviously enjoyable ways.

Most frequently, clothespins are used on the tits, especially on nipples. Clothespins can be placed on the nipples in many positions. You can start from clothespins pointing straight onto the nipple, not from the side, gripping the base of the nipple, not the tip. This does not have the same sort of ‘bite’ as grasping the nipple alone may, and often does wonderful things for sensitivity without causing pain. Pointing straight out is an especially deviant way to clothespin your partner.
You can clamp the nipple only, or work gradually out from the areola as your partner’s ability to enjoy more increases. The soft flesh under the nipple is a great place to experiment. You can also clothespin on sideways, with the nipple centered in the the hole in the clamping area. If you do this far enough back on the nipple base or areola, the tip of a large nipple will remain exposed for other things, such as ice, nibbling, or smaller clips and clamps.

The nipple is the classical place to begin practice of clothespin play.. But many areas of the body might do well with a bit of clamping either for sensation or visual appeal. There are other parts to decorate your body with clothespins such as inner thighs, the webbing between toes and fingers, scrotum, along the shaft of a penis, labias, clitoris, behind the knees and inside the elbows, and even the tonge. Generally, the clothespins can be used on any part of the body where you can ‘pinch’ up a fold of skin for the clothespins to grab.

A chain that runs through a pair or set of clothespins will add to the enjoyment. As your partner moves, the chain will cause the part of the body the clothespin is attached to move as well, creating a wonderful sensation of weight and pain. You can create a row, circle on the belly or back, a belt of clothespins round the waist, a circle round the thighs as a reminder to keep them spread, etc.

Don’t allow any clamping device to remain in place longer than 20 minutes maximum! The clothespins create the erotic sensations by cutting off the blood circulation. The whole idea of clamping is creating condensed erotic pain when the blood flow starts recirculating back into the unclamped tissues. When left in place too long, or placed where they can crush or damage tissue and internal structures, such as the delicate blood vessels of the penile shaft or the hood of the clitoris, watch out! Never clamp any piece of flesh near to dense blood vessels, to avoid damaging nerves, or internal structures, such as the corpus cavernosum and corpus spongiosum of the penis, and tissues of the clitoral hood in women. Any damage to these structures can be permanent and cause lifelong pain and suffering.
Stay safe and sane by removing the clothespins until you are more familiar with how your partner’s body responds to them.


Pulling off a clothespin is more painful than squeezing the legs to remove it gently. Taking the closthepins off causes a stronger rush of pain than putting them on. That’s because the blood is rushing back to that area of the body. If your partner is anxious, instruct him or her to take a deep breath and gently squeeze the legs of the wooden closthespin until it comes off.

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Yes, you should worship my sexy feet....yes you should give more to my feet....




I had a caller this morning almost entranced; talking about how he had to give more....more to my feet...yes..yes you should!!! and yes, yes you need to!! Click me splashing to treat me to a pedicure!!