Sithmas, Last month of the Year? You know I'm gonna bring it!

...Think of all the gangstas that I haven't kissed...???

So, another year is about to be in the books. Your favorite Domme (you know I am!) Wants to wish you all the best for the holiday season and in the new year! Remember to take time to count your blessings, tell people you love them and remember time is the most precious thing/gift of all!

Some one told me today that I rock their world, that I take away the stress and BS of life in the covid-era and that they genuinely believe everything will be okay.

We ALL answer to someone.

Yes, that includes me...I answer to One as well (remember, I am switchy for a rare One and as most of you know I have a soft spot for Dark Lords...well He is One!)...anyhow my One has been reminding me as of late to take time to slow down and savor moments. (A new thing is tea time during the day.)

So -- trust me on this: your assignment during the holiday season is to pause, have a cup of your favorite warm drink and reflect in the moment.

Sithmas is coming, but you won't be!

As usual I am turning on the Holiday line, a thanks to you good boys for being sweet to me all year (or a chance to introduce yourself if you've not done so yet!)

you can find it here:

Click the Fire to go to the Holiday Line!

All are welcome!

Fall has fell

Alright ya'll so it is the first day of fall. Something is in the air. I know folks have been locked down with Covid for far too long...but look...decency to your fellow human never goes out of style. I am seeing a lot of douchery out there. I'm seeing people not feeling good about themselves so then they take it out on others. Hit the gym and get rid of the Covid Ass. Get those feel good hormones going. Most of all don't be a dick. This goes for the ladies too, some of ya'll are being dicks with no good cause. 

Consider this being put on notice. 

If you're in contact with Me? Reformation will be happening. You will not be a dick in My presence.

I was trying to be all Happy Fall - New Chapter but some of ya'll are making it impossible.

Enough said.


a challenge to peers and an assignment to subs/betas

 Hey! Two blog posts in proximity! Groovy!

So look, it's a day of solemn rememberance here in the United States.

I am choosing to embrace the message of doing your little part to be the change.  To choose love, not hate to choose kindness over harshness....I know that coming from a Domme that sounds a little odd. However, consider it a challenge (to My peers) or an assignment (to my subs or wanna be subs) to put out a big love into the Universe! Bring some light into it! (yeah I know "hey DJ you're a DarkSider") Yes, I am...but DarkSiders are about it's a different kind of light...

anyhow, this is my message/thought and assignment for the day:

We're sendin' out a major love

And this is our message to you (message to you)

The planets are linin' up

We're bringin' brighter days

They're all in line waitin' for you

Can't you see?

You're just another part of me

I Rock your world know I did.

 Ok, let's get to the brass tacks.  In BDSM there is power exchange of some level. Sometimes it is just a modest amount sometimes it is TPE or Total Power Exchange.  When you come away from an experience with me, be it a call, a chat or a recording and you're light headed and in sub space....when you are spent and feel rocked...that's a good thing and that's power exchange.

It is a good feeling. It's heady and's a body high...incomparable to anything else....better than drinking or drugs the body's natural response....As you well know Phantom would take me there with regularity....but it takes an exceptional Alpha male to bring that out in me (I do have that side, but only felt it once until....)....some exquisite and recent....though, I'm not sure if He is Alpha naturally or is actually a Dom....


Sometimes you happen across someone....who can take you there. It might be a conversation - something you read or just stumble across or into...anyhow...I'm avidly encouraging you to grab that with both hands and enjoy. (Life is too short to not!) Make no apologies (and by the way, let the Muse that rocked you know what they did too...given they were probably trying to do just that.)