The Submission of Tony - a short FemDom Tale

 

Tony nervously drove to DJ's dungeon, heart pounding in his ears. He had heard many things about DJ's skill as a domme and he was excited but nervous at the same time.  When he arrived he was met by the delightful sight of her, tall and blonde with a fiery gaze and an inviting smirk. She welcomed Tony with a 15 minute session where they went over protocols and safeword usage.

She walked him through the dungeon, casually describing the equipment and how it could be used. Tony was full of anticipation as she explained the effects of each session. He kept thinking about how powerful DJ must be and how lucky he was to be here. 

The session began with foot worship. Tony was made to kneel before DJ and gently massage her feet. He felt incredibly vulnerable as he worshiped her feet, and it was an experience he would never forget. Tony bowed his head before Mistress DJ in reverence as he approached her feet. His eyes followed the curves of her toes and calves with admiration. His heart raced with anticipation as he inhaled her foot odor through his nose. Tony slowly descended to his knees and brought his face close to DJ's feet, letting out a deep sigh of pleasure. He ran his fingertips along the surface of her soft skin, taking in the feel of her delicate feet. He kissed her toes, pressing his lips against her skin and savoring the taste of her feet. He moved his hands up and down the length of her legs, rubbing and massaging her feet with gentle, loving strokes. He applied enough pressure to get the perfect balance of pleasure and relaxation. His hands worked their way across her feet, kneading them and exploring their curves. Finally, Tony let out a satisfied moan and pressed his face between her toes. He breathed in deeply, savoring the combination of her foot musk and the scent of the lotion she had applied beforehand. He then licked her feet all over, savoring the unique tang of her sweat mixed with the sweetness of the lotion. The experience was exhilarating. Even after Tony had finished, he still wanted more and stayed next to DJ's feet, worshiping her and savoring her divine presence. After his worshipful attendance, DJ then moved on to flogging. 

Tony was bound to a post as DJ prepared to flog him: Tony trembled with anticipation as Mistress DJ approached him. He had dreamt of this for as long as he could remember, and now that it was finally here he felt his heart racing in his chest. DJ was tall and imposing, wearing a black leather bodysuit and knee-high boots. Her eyes were full of intensity as she looked Tony up and down, taking in every inch of him. She smiled slyly and then pulled out a flogger from the rack. Tony gulped as Mistress DJ moved closer to him. He felt his body tense up in anticipation as DJ used the flogger to lightly strike his nude body. With each impact, an electric sensation shot through his body and his heart raced faster. Mistress DJ took her time, exploring every inch of her submissive's body with the flogger. She teased his skin with light strokes, inflicting small pulses of pain that sent waves of pleasure throughout his body. His breathing became ragged as she increased the intensity of the flogging, leaving him quivering and writhing in delight. Finally, Tony could take no more and let out a shuddering sigh of pleasure. Mistress DJ smiled in satisfaction, knowing that her submissive had been completely taken by her. With one final flourish, Mistress DJ unfastened the ropes that bound Tony to the pole. She brushed her lips against his cheek and whispered in his ear, "That was beautiful."

The lashes stung, but he found that the endorphins released from the pain actually made it pleasurable. When DJ stopped, Tony felt exhilarated and a bit addicted. 

DJ then moved on to cock and ball torture. She had a variety of tools for this, and Tony knew that the sensations would be intense. First, she put clothespins on his nipples. Then, she started teasing his balls with a feather tickler, which made him gasp with pleasure. 

Starting softly and then increasing intensity until his entire body was shaking with pleasure.

Next, Mistress DJ stepped it up a notch, replacing the feather with a bamboo cane. This time, the pain was more intense and immediate, causing Tony to cry out in agony. Mistress DJ seemed to take pleasure in his pain though, as she kept going, inch by inch, increasing the pressure until Tony was sure that his head would burst.

Finally, after what seemed like an eternity, Mistress DJ stopped, allowing Tony to catch his breath. But, instead of letting him go, she grabbed a blindfold and tied it tightly over his eyes. Tony felt completely in Mistress DJ's control now, and he reveled in the sensation. 

The next thing he knew, Mistress DJ was back to her feather and cane torture, alternating between tender caresses and vicious blows. Tony was soon lost in a euphoric haze as his body responded to each sensation in turn. By the end of it, Tony felt as if he had been through an emotional and physical roller coaster, and all he wanted was to stay in Mistress DJ's dungeon forever.

Finally, DJ brought out the vibrating Hitachi wand. She moved it slowly over Tony's cock and balls, making sure to hit all of his nerve endings. The sensations were almost too much to bear, but Tony loved every second of it. 

When the session was finished, Tony felt like he had been to another world. His body was full of pleasure and pain in equal measure, and he couldn't believe how amazing the experience had been. He thanked DJ for the experience, and left with a feeling of accomplishment - he had done something he had never thought possible before. 

Tony was sure that he would be back for more - DJ had opened up a new world of experiences for him, and he was eager to explore further. He had fetishes he’d like to discuss…

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Summertime...time to sit back and unwind.

I hope everyone is making the best of the summer! Time goes so swiftly doesn't it?? I don't have any pearls of wisdom to share really other than some fun links!

(That is my latest podcast.)

Two more NFTs up to acquire:

They are friends, I imagine, Or perhaps unfamiliar yet curious neighbors. These two seem to like to lick each other And probably value public transparency more than personal privacy I wonder how they became work out and play in partners, surprisingly athletic, flexible, and inventive With minds that began flirting, Engaging bodies now urgently culminating. Benediction for this newly heated yet ancient sacred communion A warm summer kiss, a shared soiled towel, a sapient smile in my shy shower.

Corona / Covid how are you faring?

from people becoming ill to state lock downs...
from having to wear a mask to shortages on staples...
It's a struggle, many of ya'll have suffered from this...
For the month of September I will be offering 50% off goodies IF you mention you saw this on my blog (shoot me a note, and I will give you the discounted price) AND...the holiday line will be the COVID line at a discounted rate through September 30th!

Adult Education

What you want is an Adult Education. Want to learn about a kink? explore a fetish? Roleplay something you never dared? I gotchu! Look 20 years of experience, study and Domming….I'll help you get there...and if I can't? I will help you on your journey to find it!

flrt.me/MistressDJ

www.mistressdj.com
Call me, let's explore!

Communication is Key

So...what's your pleasure?

Please put what you or others consider "normal" from your mind! There are always going to be kink shamers that try to say these things are okay and these kinds aren’t. All this focus on what counts as normal, right, proper sex (and what isn't "okay") takes us from the route of what we might like to explore or what tweaks our tweak.

So the first step is to try to ignore all the things you’ve learned or believed/heard about ‘normal sex’ and all the things you've "heard" is "amazing sex" and focus on what YOU would actually like to do. That might include kink or at least kink as foreplay. 

People are into all different kinds of things. For example you might enjoy TPE/controlling another and never go near being submissive or impact play. Or vice versa. . Nobody should ever tell you that your motivations or preferences are any less valid that anyone else’s. One day you may find you want to be in charge and the next day on your knees.

Communicate it!

If you’re not sure what you’re into you can check out  kinky videos, erotic fiction, or various BDSM websites and see what gets your attention. Another idea is a yes, no, maybe list - of if things sound interesting. If you can't find a good one, I have one I will gladly send you to help you explore!

Preferences and desires often change over time, and with experience. You should re-examine your ideas/kinks from time to time. Some people write, and update, a kind of ‘user manual’ for themselves to give partners a longer explanation of how they – and their body – work. One particularly important thing to get across is any ‘hard limits’ (things that go beyond no interest but are a "hell no") and ‘triggers’ (things that will upset/cause a reaction in you) you’re aware of so that partners know what they really shouldn't do or say.

Safewords are a good idea - traditional BDSM uses Red, Yellow and Green...during a check in green, like a stoplight is "all good." Yellow meaning this is on the edge of limitations and Red is a "safeword" or "STOP"

However, with your partner you can come up with your own terminology where if something is new or if something is...as with the One I answer to a "no no" (meaning it isn't going to happen under any circumstances - a beyond negotiable hard limit) 

The absolutely key thing with all of this is to create conditions under which whatever you do is most likely to be consensual for all concerned. Speak up! "I'd like to try this..." Or "I'd like it if you did this to me." If the session is virtual (most of our worlds are at a minimum partially virtual.) "I'd like to feel this way." "It would be great if you could do this for me." (Examples might be guided masturbation, setting up a schedule for a sub, or even a session of no holds-barred kinky talk.)

Main thing is communicate! Whether with a vanilla partner or with your Dom/me or sub, no one reads minds. Convey what you're thinking and what you'd like (you'll be surprised!) If they are your partner, they are going to want you pleased/to feel good (yes even Dom/mes like when they deliver pleasure.)

Hope that helps! Now go communicate!

Bratting - why it isn't always cute

I am going to step out on a thin branch right here and say something point blank: Bratting isn't cute, and I am beginning to associate it with time wasters. Bratting can easily cross the line from being "fun" to "poke at the Domme" to where the sub is just badly behaved. There is nothing worse than someone who wastes my time! These will be people that send little hellos here and there, or promise that they will be in contact soon only to bonk off again...Ones that say....oh I'll call later tonight and try to get me to chat a scene (which is possible) but it requires INTERACTION....and of course...there's always the freebie seekers...but I digress.. The worst ones, however, are the ones that W/we are forming a BDSM relationship -- something doesn't align with their petty selfish ways and they either "ghost" altogether or try to regain some margin of control with their behavior...this can be trying to buy their way out (many gifts, hefty tributes and gift cards) or by trying to put on a good behavior "show" (leaving feedback everywhere, re-tweeting everything, etc) While I'm not one to turn down either...they don't make up for poor behavior.

As a sub, you are not in control of the scene, the situation or the relationship.

Read that again.

Your hard limits will be respected. Your lines will be pushed and I'll take you for the ride of your life;

BUT

"Bratting" to get my attention

"Bratting" because things aren't developing as YOU want them

"Bratting" to delay/change something

is atrocious.

It wastes MY time and yours.

Also....when I've given people multiple chances, and even pulled them back into the fold a few times and they continue to play games...I let them go. I deal with a few subs, as you can imagine, I simply cannot afford (timewise) one that is attempting to garnish all of my time with their poor behavior



Here is a good article for you sassy-fucks out there:

http://dominantguide.com/1525/the-brat-ownership-guide/

It does clarify the line of bratting vs being a badly behaved sub.

...an escape -- it's easy to venture, come with me!

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Let's talk prostate stimulation!

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when you wish....you were "one of the cool kids"

Realize instead that:

Challenge for the new year:

Be happy in your own skin!

1. Get real.

Do the work to get clear about who you are—not just who you routinely consider yourself to be, the person you habitually show the world—but who you are in the deepest recesses of your authentic heart and soul.
The word “authenticity” is misunderstood sometimes. People think of it as a virtue, like honesty . . . like you owe the world your authenticity and you should feel bad if you’re not authentic. That’s not the case. I’m not suggesting you should become more authentic because it will make you a better person—you already are a phenomenal person. I’m telling you that becoming more authentic is your golden ticket—to joy, to success, to vibrant health and energy, to easily manifesting the life of your dreams. It’s every bit that transformative. You’re not doing this to better serve the world; you’re doing it to better serve you. But—happy bonus!—it happens to be the best way to serve your loved ones and the world as well.

2. Adore YOU.

If you’ve been on a personal development path for a while, I’m probably not the first to suggest that you need to love yourself. But I’m surprised to discover how often my students don’t really seem to know why I’m so insistent on that point. Are you tired of hearing about how you need to love yourself more? Does the thought of it feel kind of like of a burden—one more thing to check off your To-Do list? Does the whole concept feel a bit worn-out and cliché? Maybe you just need to understand what’s in it for you. Self-love is the fastest route to literally anything you want right now. Money, love, health, romance . . . it all hinges on your level of self-love. The circumstances of your life are always providing you a crystal-clear, precisely accurate measure of how much you love yourself and what you believe you deserve. All you can ever create is what you believe you’re worthy of experiencing. It’s an immutable energetic law. That’s why elevating self-love is the not-so-secret path to elevating everything else.

3. Trust your wants.

Stop trying to justify and rationalize your most heartfelt desires. Your desires are the clearest indicator of who you are. Denying them is denying you. No one needs to understand why you want what you want. You don’t even need to understand it yourself. Just trust it, and trust yourself to manifest it. The reason you don’t already have everything you want is crazy-simple. You don’t love yourself enough yet to deeply believe that you deserve everything you want. My students argue that sometimes, but they always discover it’s true. You might even believe, on a conscious level, that you do deserve a certain thing, but I promise you that if you were fully, wholly believing you deserved it—even in the cobwebby corners of your unconscious belief system—it would already be in your life.

4. Stop trying to vanquish the “bad stuff.”

And stop whining about it, too. Celebrate our unwanted circumstances because there’s so much valuable information for us in them. Get clear on why your unwanted circumstances are here and why you created them. Then use them as a springboard. Once you can start genuinely thanking “the bad stuff”, it’s pretty easy to move past it.

5. Take responsibility.

Own every last drop of everything you’ve ever created. We’re so conditioned to blame our unwanted circumstances on other people, or on the “system” or the world . . . What if it’s really all within your control? Taking full responsibility for the life you’ve created for yourself and the life you’re in the process of creating is hugely empowering. But it requires first getting uber-honest to a degree that’s terrifying for most people. Don’t be “most people.” Understanding that you alone are holding the reins on your life is the first critical step toward learning how to operate them.

6. Stop tolerating.

Tolerating is slow emotional suicide. It sucks the life out of you, drains your energy, numbs you, depletes you, and keeps you immobilized. There’s no reason for you to ever tolerate anything. We sometimes confuse tolerating with accepting—we all know it’s good to accept the things we can’t change, right? If we make very clear distinctions between what can be changed and what can’t, then it’s astounding the kinds of life-altering adjustments people are able to easily, joyfully make when they understand the underlying reasons they’ve been tolerating things.

7. Get out of the spin cycle.

Where in your life are you on autopilot, creating the same situation for yourself (in essence) over and over again? Maybe you keep dating the same romantic partner. Maybe the current model is better looking, or more successful, or slightly more open than the one before, but in essence you’re with a lover who triggers your tried-and-true insecurities, defense mechanisms, and familiar unhealthy spirals. Or maybe you find yourself in the same employment dynamic over and over again—even if you change careers completely. Maybe you’ve attracted a series of supervisors, or a series of friends, who stir up the not-good-enough feelings a parent invoked for you as a child. Escape the spin cycle by learning how to look closely at how these patterns develop and how to benefit from the opportunities they offer.

8. Permanently shift your beliefs.

Focus on the deliberate rewiring of your belief system because your beliefs are determining everything you experience as your reality. That’s not New-Age speak anymore; it’s common knowledge. It’s why researchers always have to use placebo control groups whenever they test any drug. If they don’t have a group taking a sugar pill, their findings won’t be considered valid by the agencies that govern pharmaceuticals. In pain-control experiments, when a new pain pill is tested, fully half of the sufferers who are given a placebo will report having less pain. The mind is that powerful and the scientific community knows it. Changing your mind will change your life. Many of your limiting beliefs are not unique to you; our culture suffers from a long-standing epidemic of crappy shared beliefs. Most of us, at some level, harbor the same fears, the same tragic self-doubts, and the same profound longings to be liberated from our self-made prisons. In our outer circumstances, we may vary greatly, but at deeper levels, this is seldom the case. If you aren’t living the precisely blissful, richly textured life you crave, take the steps to discover which of your beliefs are keeping you from it and what you can do about that.

9. Dream loudly.

Stop limiting yourself according to what seems practical. Practical goals do not inspire enough passion to propel you toward their certain fruition. As John F. Kennedy wisely surmised, “The problems of the world cannot possibly be solved by skeptics or cynics whose horizons are limited by the obvious realities. We need men who can dream of things that never were.” Be those men (and women.).

10. Live passionately.

Once you’ve done the self-examination work to uncover your most delicious desires, don’t pussyfoot toward them. Hurl yourself recklessly in their direction! Trust that the Universe wildly adores you and is always orchestrating on your behalf. It’s been waiting for you to get pumped and grow a pair so that it could swoop in with divine assistance that will leave you breathless.

when you're feeling like ginger but are really more mary-ann

Throwback but somedays so fitting!!!

oi this next generation -- millennials seriously need a waaambulance and a tissue for their issue!

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pony express?

SAN FRANCISCO, UTAH
With transportation services like Uber and Lyft making millions, a new competitor from the kinky community is giving them a run for their money. The new service, Pony Express, is a local cab company powered entirely by “pony girls” and “pony boys,” men and women who pull carts and who dress and behave like human ponies.

Prices for their services vary by location, but at kink events, short rides can often be paid for simply by feeding the pony a carrot and petting them.

For longer trips, rates are competitive with other services.

When asked to comment, one of the drivers whinnied and nickered, but gave no substantive comments.

Pony Express is expected to gross more than $15 million this year in the the San Francisco area alone.