I am going to step out on a thin branch right here and say something point blank: Bratting isn't cute, and I am beginning to associate it with time wasters. Bratting can easily cross the line from being "fun" to "poke at the Domme" to where the sub is just badly behaved. There is nothing worse than someone who wastes my time! These will be people that send little hellos here and there, or promise that they will be in contact soon only to bonk off again...Ones that say....oh I'll call later tonight and try to get me to chat a scene (which is possible) but it requires INTERACTION....and of course...there's always the freebie seekers...but I digress..
The worst ones, however, are the ones that W/we are forming a BDSM relationship -- something doesn't align with their petty selfish ways and they either "ghost" altogether or try to regain some margin of control with their behavior...this can be trying to buy their way out (many gifts, hefty tributes and gift cards) or by trying to put on a good behavior "show" (leaving feedback everywhere, re-tweeting everything, etc) While I'm not one to turn down either...they don't make up for poor behavior.
As a sub, you are not in control of the scene, the situation or the relationship.
Read that again.
Your hard limits will be respected. Your lines will be pushed and I'll take you for the ride of your life;
BUT
"Bratting" to get my attention
"Bratting" because things aren't developing as YOU want them
"Bratting" to delay/change something
is atrocious.
It wastes MY time and yours.
Also....when I've given people multiple chances, and even pulled them back into the fold a few times and they continue to play games...I let them go. I deal with a few subs, as you can imagine, I simply cannot afford (timewise) one that is attempting to garnish all of my time with their poor behavior
Here is a good article for you sassy-fucks out there:
http://dominantguide.com/1525/the-brat-ownership-guide/
It does clarify the line of bratting vs being a badly behaved sub.
Just watch me now. (All eyes on me)
Some great new goodies for sale....
******************************** With the onset of fall there will be many great things coming!
Stay tuned!!!
In the meantime: with the change of seasons, a pedicure would be great! I'm going to put this here for whoever would like to treat me to a pedi! Remember, you get to pick the color and get pics too!
Thanks in advance.
What is figging?
Please review this infographic for more information on the practice and application of figging.
On this 9-11....no radio silence from me.
17 years ago...something crazy happened. A country song I love says "A sucker punch came flying from somewhere in the back...." Here's the deal: whether it was some sort of Illuminati move or the Rothschild family....some church/religion/movement or some sort of an inside crazy something...(Or, if Osama bin Laden coordinated it as the timeline states) Here is what I know: This country I was born in raised in...the one I would march proudly in my red, white and blue twirling my baton for the parade....the one that I love coming back to after global travels...it was attacked that day.
2977 people (and 19...well...) lost their lives that day. There were moments that redefines heroes - FDNY and first responders rushing into buildings as people were rushing or jumping out...people on planes taking the planes down so no more than needed suffer....people helping people...Americans helping Americans...all those that were moved to sign up for the military the next day.... I am by no means a flag waving Go 'murica kinda gal.... this was my Kennedy. I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing. Most years I go to radio silence....I am quiet, and somber...and remember.... this year in the face of a split country, in the face of racism, in the face of it all going wrong...I want to say: "I love this country! I am grateful for the men and women who bravely and proudly serve so I can live this crazy life I love! I can speak my opinions, I can be a Domme, I can pursue life, liberty and happiness!" Live loudly Live boldly. We live in the best country on this planet! Flaws and all!
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