Fall has fell

Alright ya'll so it is the first day of fall. Something is in the air. I know folks have been locked down with Covid for far too long...but look...decency to your fellow human never goes out of style. I am seeing a lot of douchery out there. I'm seeing people not feeling good about themselves so then they take it out on others. Hit the gym and get rid of the Covid Ass. Get those feel good hormones going. Most of all don't be a dick. This goes for the ladies too, some of ya'll are being dicks with no good cause. 

Consider this being put on notice. 

If you're in contact with Me? Reformation will be happening. You will not be a dick in My presence.

I was trying to be all Happy Fall - New Chapter but some of ya'll are making it impossible.

Enough said.


a challenge to peers and an assignment to subs/betas

 Hey! Two blog posts in proximity! Groovy!

So look, it's a day of solemn rememberance here in the United States.

I am choosing to embrace the message of doing your little part to be the change.  To choose love, not hate to choose kindness over harshness....I know that coming from a Domme that sounds a little odd. However, consider it a challenge (to My peers) or an assignment (to my subs or wanna be subs) to put out a big love into the Universe! Bring some light into it! (yeah I know "hey DJ you're a DarkSider") Yes, I am...but DarkSiders are about passion...so it's a different kind of light...

anyhow, this is my message/thought and assignment for the day:

We're sendin' out a major love

And this is our message to you (message to you)

The planets are linin' up

We're bringin' brighter days

They're all in line waitin' for you

Can't you see?

You're just another part of me

I Rock your world ...you know I did.

 Ok, let's get to the brass tacks.  In BDSM there is power exchange of some level. Sometimes it is just a modest amount sometimes it is TPE or Total Power Exchange.  When you come away from an experience with me, be it a call, a chat or a recording and you're light headed and in sub space....when you are spent and feel rocked...that's a good thing and that's power exchange.

It is a good feeling. It's heady and spacey...it's a body high...incomparable to anything else....better than drinking or drugs the body's natural response....As you well know Phantom would take me there with regularity....but it takes an exceptional Alpha male to bring that out in me (I do have that side, but only felt it once until....)....some exquisite and recent....though, I'm not sure if He is Alpha naturally or is actually a Dom....


Sometimes you happen across someone....who can take you there. It might be a conversation - something you read or just stumble across or into...anyhow...I'm avidly encouraging you to grab that with both hands and enjoy. (Life is too short to not!) Make no apologies (and by the way, let the Muse that rocked you know what they did too...given they were probably trying to do just that.)

hmmmm so the space race...

Ok, so you boys know I love all things space. I am a Star Wars fangirl, I follow and love NASA, Space-X, I track the rovers on Mars and look forward to the moon trip...BUT BUT BUT...what about these boys with their toys? I mean Branson, Besos and Musk? Ok, look, for the most part I think these guys have their hearts in the right place, I know they are all philanthropists. I cannot fault them or be salty towards their success...I have even gone so far to assume out loud that Elon likely has the best sex toys!!!

But, could these billionaires be doing something more productive instead of the "who has the biggest dick?" contest? Perhaps. I think it's a matter of attention honestly. I mean yeah, they could work towards clean water, immunizations and other things to better man-kind -- but when Gates does that, he gets shit on by the press...so these guys can't win for losing.

My concern is that in this pissing match we will lose one of them...and that would be sad. They set a bar really high of excess, but to me, there's a spark in that --that us common folk can use to motivate us! Do I really want to go to space? No, I don't. Am I excited that our space program continues because Elon has an interest in it? you betcha!

so while I think their little space race is a bit...douchey....I will say that I do have respect for all three for different reasons.

I am certainly not full socialist...these guys built a better mousetrap or were in the right place at the right time...I cannot fault them for that. If I ever write the best seller that becomes a movie, or become a galactically famous Domme, I would not want the venom darts aimed at me that are aimed at them...

That said, how was your weekend?