Facets of Mistress DJ

I am always intrigued when guys are surprised to find out or discover another facet of "me."

Examples:
include religious beliefs, experiences, musical taste, vanilla hobbies etc. So, to help you boys out here is a getting to know me!!

#1 Are you an animal lover or would you avoid keeping animals at home?
Are you kidding?? I am a crazy cat lady!! I also have two dogs...I would have more critters if I could figure out how!

#2 Do you like summer or winter?
Summer all the way -- I hate being cold.

#3 Would you diet or would you work out?
Work out, I like my food.

#4 What do you wear to bed?
If it's not snowy/cold outside: nothing or a t shirt -- if it's cooler a proper sexy nightie

#5 What’s your favorite clothing brand?
ummm??? *rattles brain trying to think of a brand* um there is a shirt -- gildian or something like that -- it's super soft -- got a t shirt from a fundraiser for livescifi...it's really really soft so whoever that company is.

#6 When was the last time you cried?
a few minutes ago -- watching the Revolution reunited shortly after Prince's death.

#7 Which color reflects your personality and why?
hmm -- rich brown, coral, sunny yellow -- sometimes black.
rich brown -- I'm down to earth -- coral - my name dawn has corals and pinks, sunny yellow I'm blonde and black is classic

#8 In the animal kingdom, which animal would you be?
hmmm something that sits up in a tree or in a cave and watches others

#9 Do you like tattoos and body piercing?
sure -- on other people.

#10 How much PDA is acceptable? 
depends on the situation

#11 How often do you take a shower?
shower?? maybe daily -- bath definitely daily

#12 What are your favorite magazines?
stuff with peoples true stories in them

#13 What are your favorite books?
Stephen king anything...yaya sisterhood is a favorite...

#14 What’s your favorite movie?
currently?? anything with either Anakin Skywalker or Darth Vader (Star Wars)

#15 What’s your favorite music you’re listening to these days?
Country - Blake Shelton


#16 What’s your favorite alcoholic drink?
I don't drink

#17 What’s your favorite vacation idea?
anywhere with a beach

#18 What’s your favorite food?
Toast, second round draft pick is cheese curds, third is chicken strips

#19 Who’s your favorite actor?
bullshit - I want three: James Spader, Joaquin Phoenix, Danny DeVito (there's probably more but I'd totally love to be the fluff in that fluffernutter sammich!)

#20 If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it?
Who are you and what do you know? I would turn it in to local authorities.

#21 Are you religious?
Yes, Sabbath keeping Christian (but not a member of any one "doctrine".)

#22 Are you a gizmo person?
like the gremlin? do I like fidget spinners? what the fuck?
I tinker sometimes? I don't know what this wants from me!!!

#23 What kind of sport do you like?
running, golf, football, basketball...

#24 Clubbing or candlelight dinner?
eesh?? those are my only picks??? I guess dinner...

#25 Earth Hour or Fourth of July fireworks?
Who writes these??? what is earth hour?? I guess fireworks though I don't like loud noises.

#26 Backpacking or a luxury hotel?
backpacking

#27 Christmas or Halloween?
Neither? I guess Christmas out of the two...

#28 Are you a morning person?
not. at. fucking. all.

#29 What’s your philosophy in life?
Try not to be a dick.

#30 When was the last time you were happy you lied?
Spared someone's feelings that wanted to go on a date.

#31 What comes to your mind when you think of your exes? 
Men can be unreliable and icky.

#32 Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
both at times?

#33 What’s your idea of romance?
spontaneous gestures. it doesn't fit in a box.

#34 Would you like to live in the countryside or in a metropolitan area?
I don't ever want to live in the city again.

#35 When did you lose your virginity?
oh jeez, next question??? I was in my 20's

#36 What’s your favorite body part of the opposite sex?
Eyes and brain (tie)

#37 What’s the wildest thing you’ve done sexually? 
Now, you're asking a Domme this! In the dungeon?? probably something that required the sybian or fucking machine (someone else) personally?? probably involved being outside...

#38 Do you think money can buy happiness?
not at all - usually causes more issues.

#39 The world would be a better place if…?
people were more empathetic

#40 Do you have any social causes that are close to your heart?
Animals, sex-trafficked people (not in the industry by choice), endangered species

#41 What do you do over the weekends?
Same thing I do everyday -- try to take over the world. Usually on Niteflirt -- housework, yard work...sit in the sun when it's around...

#42 Would you mind if I had a best friend of the opposite sex?
nah, if you were my partner -- you know where your bread is buttered.

#43 Which was the worst phase in your life?
high school

#44 What was the happiest moment in your life?
too many to count -- probably sometime dancing outside

#45 Do you judge a book by its cover?
a book book? maybe. People? no.

#46 What’s your political stance?
libertarian -- Morally I really could care less about what the fuck people want to do...it's all them...you want to marry same sex?  doesn't affect me. You didn't mean to get pregnant and want an abortion? doesn't affect me. Those choices affect parties involved...Financially I don't think the government should get 5% of what they currently take.

#47 Do you watch porn and what’s your view on it?
Sometimes -- usually sent to me -- it's overrated and sets people up for disappointment (expectations) it's a movie -- pretend...some of it's interesting I suppose...good way for people to convey to me what they like -- what I like in porn is pretty limited.

#48 Do you believe in karma?
oh yes, it's real. It's in every religion too.

#49 Do you plan your life or live for the moment?
Try to plan...but shit happens.

#50 Do you think life is fair?
I think life is what you make it.

#51 If you were marooned on an island, what are the five things you would take with you? 
the Bible, a way to have safe water (pot to boil or something) a way to make fire (flint/steel) a sharp tool (axe/machete etc) and a ready to go boat? lol

#52 Would you sulk or would you confront?
confront.

#53 Are you addicted to anything?
caffeine.

#54 Any current news that’s caught your attention?
government shutdown.

#55 What are your favorite apps that you use often?
line play, snoopy town, twitter, facebook

#56 Are you an optimist or a pessimist?
both.

#57 What do you have for breakfast?
varies daily -- today was oatmeal

#58 How often do you make your bed?
hee hee -- I have minions for that!! j/k I spread it up daily -- make it once a week when sheets get changed.

#59 If you knew you were right, would you take a stand even if you know you would make a scene in public or would you let it go?
call me ms scenemaker

#60 What’s an absolute no-no in a relationship?
unspoken infidelity.

Working towards a no touch orgasm

How to:

Relax and get comfortable. This is pretty self-explanatory; whatever works for you works for you. I usually sit down (so I don't fall asleep) late at night on my bed, wrapped up in blankets, with headphones on when I feel like listening to something relaxing. I very much recommend making sure to stay warm. If you feel more comfortable being naked, by all means be naked. I personally feel more relaxed fully dressed.

Breathe naturally. You don't need to take in deep breaths, just natural breaths. If you find your heart beating faster and your breathing rate increasing, that's a good thing – it means you're getting aroused. Just keep everything relaxed and don't rush it.

Move slowly. I cannot stress this enough. I usually spend between 20 and 120 minutes before I start having the actual orgasm. Take in every taste, touch, and odor. Imagine the warmth and moisture of her lips, of her vagina...take in everything.

Don't let your mind wander. I suck at staying focused on one task. If you start to notice your mind wandering, do something physical to bring your mind back to the sexual. Rub a nipple, move your hand down your chest, thigh, whatever it takes. (Just keep in mind this is a no-touch orgasm, at least with regard to your genitals.)

Emotional response. This is the thing that kept me from finally achieving it for months – although now that I know it, it seems so obvious. Men don't really need to put any emotional value into sex to have an orgasm, but having a no-touch orgasm is a completely different ballgame. Don't just imagine yourself banging any hot chick; instead, choose someone that you simply adore. Even if they're not exactly the most attractive person you've met, you'll find that imagining a "first time" with this specific person, if you hadn't already, is much more orgasm-inducing than fantasizing about some random porn star.

Last words of advice. Keep it clean. Find out for yourself how to separate the orgasm from ejaculation; this way, you'll realize you don't exactly need to ejaculate to achieve this, though I still have a few times. Try something a little different every time. Try doing it your own way, too. Fantasies of teachers with big breasts are nice, yet without even realizing it, many like to really go all out with fantasies, making it more visual than full-body and harder to have the no-touch orgasm. Just remember, if you decide to choose such a fantasy, it takes much more concentration. Also, don't force any thoughts in or out of your head. I was once a kid, too, and I know random guy's asses will pop in and out here and there – and even though you might think that's gross, just keep your mind on track and don't freak out. Have fun and best of luck with the No-Touch!

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