Sub fever - an original poem

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Talk to me...

"Talk To Me"

When you're having those days when you're feeling deserted
And everyone leaves you on hold
When none of your friends seem to care what you're doin'
And you're feeling old, out in the cold
When the only thing left of romance is a memory
And your memory's not strong
Whenever your clouds lose their silvery lining
I'll keep you warm, out of the storm

You don't need no psychiatry
Come on baby you can talk to me
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
You don't need to be hypnotized
Lay down here and look me in my eyes
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
Won't you talk to me
Come on and talk to me
Oh talk to me

When you're feeling the blues and there's no one to lean on
When nobody makes you belong
You need to be safe in the arms of a someone
Who'll make you strong, it won't take long
If you're lookin' for someone that you can believe in
Let that someone be me
Can't think of a thing that some lovin' can't handle
Let's make a start, give me your heart

You don't need no psychiatry
Come on baby you can talk to me
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
You don't need to be hypnotized
Lay down here and look me in my eyes
Cuddle up on the couch with me
We can talk all night for free
Talk to me
Oh won't you talk to me
Oh, keep on talking to me
You gotta, you gotta talk to me

A collaboration with two veteran Niteflirt Alphas?? oh yes! Myrtle Beach The Movie--

There is something in the works. Something big. Myrtle Beach the Movie -- it's an open call to the country -- hell to the world to be a part of stepping outside of how art is created. Music, passion, fetish, images, clothing, deviance, truth and stories that happen in this crazy thing we call life.

This is just a taste-- A dark Dom in his Dungeon, summoning, playing and lurking...creating from the darkness...

A Dominatrix...a bellydancer -- moving like a snake -- pulling you into her world....

This is just the beginning -- we are basically giving this away -- why?? because we want to rock your world.

If I can bring 25% of it....

Ok ya'll...so you who know me,  -- know about Phantom. (My first and I guess only real Dom-though we were miles apart and the one who inspired me--ok it was initially an assignment-- to make mp3s and various creations.) You also know that I have a small percentage (very small) of switch in me, and only to a unicorn or possibly a Sith Lord that knows how to access it. Well, occasionally, I've liked to find inspiration to remind me of why I do what I do -- and to remind me to bring it full throttle to ya'll...Needless to say, as you know Phantom (no, I still won't type his name! how many years later?!) passed 3 years or so ago...so I can no longer go back to the well for inspiration. (outside of various letters etc, but not the same as a conversation.) 

BUT, I happened across a place--that in my mind "had potential" to be that inspiration. (no, I'm not telling you where.) Then I happened across an individual - one who makes me want to raise My game as a Domme/artist and one who reminded me of that flight to subspace (it'd been a while since I took that journey.)

So, buckle up! It's a little like striking a vein of gold and knowing there is soooo much more below...and this Domme was reminded of why I do what I do...and to what level to bring it.

May the Force be with you if I get to drink from the well with any regularity (you're going to need it!)

...but am i?

Something that came to mind today while I was on the phone and creating some mp3's. Many of my callers seem to have a genuine fear or concern that "they are the only one" that ever thought _______

9.7 /10 times they are not...very rarely does someone come up with something so out there, so unique I've not heard of it before...

so this is for you: the new caller, the new sub, the new seeker....(capitalization based on BDSM protocols) This isn't a real life conversation/poem, but it could be...my heart breaks for those that feel alone and it is one more reason I do what I do.



...but am i??

i seek to serve a Domme, one who will be my Goddess;

a beauty with wisdom beyond my comprehension.

A Woman so clearly out of my league, yet i'm compelled;

compelled to reach out to seek Her.

i find Her, a wonder with grey eyes and a quick wit.

One who speaks very matter-of-factly but isn't cruel.

but...i have a secret.

i've not spoken of it to anyone.

i like to wear panties and pretend i'm a girl.

i call this Marvel; She listens--without interruption to my tale.

i ask her rhetorically, "It seems that i must be the only one that does this??"

She is thoughtful, choosing words like daggers to throw precisely.

"No, there are many men that wish to be a woman and visa- versa.

rarely is someone so far  out there that they are the only one."

i pause...my voice cracking...."but am i?"

do nothing for 30 seconds #calm

...an experience with a Phone Mistress (by yours truly!)

Sexual Encounter-
It all began so simple - an ad for a phonesex company.
An image, a promotional blurb a resume of filth and of kink. A desire that was contained in her grey eyes - was that a wall of restraint or torturous gates keeping him out?
Then she sent him a text/sext--she commanded 'I want to talk to you'.. 'I want you to stroke for me'.. 'Isn't it time you gave up control?'..
His heart pounding so strongly was it fear or lust?
Imagining all of dark fantasies that had lingered for many years before....
Pictures imagined and expectations created...
He dialed the phone...igniting ignition for his rocket ship.
She answered with "Hello, who is this?"
She has everything prepared, like an exquisite execution of a blueprint. She needed no introduction...
he gave her a name...a name to be called with trembling and trepidation in his voice...
'Why are you shaking pet? ', 'Are you afraid? '
he cannot answer...between his raging erection and her low calm tone he's slipping under into subspace.
'I feel so funny...' he says, unable to formulate what he's feeling.
'That's normal, that's subspace...just savor it." the Mistress reassures.
She uses him as her play thing as long as she wishes...all night long. He wonders if it's sexually exciting for her too, but he dare not ask.
He is her slave for the moment. She can have him any way she could imagine.
He could spend hours between her legs; at her feet; at her whims.
'Get on your knees, pet and wait.'
She speaks of edging, of control and of chastity.
She explains as a pet nothing is his.
His cock, his time and his wallet are all hers to do with as she will.

It feels as if months had gone by in his mind until the next time he can speak to The One..
She asks him if he wants to stay, to live in her world forever? She gives him assignments to soothe his sub-frenzy... But before he can think to answer;  She has vanished...she now dwells deep in the recesses of his mind as well as his loins...


To be continued....

Five more minutes...(by Scotty McCreery, Frank Rogers and Monty Criswell)

Eight years old a couple cane poles sitting down by the creek
Our lines in the water watching those bobbers seeing that red sun sink
Mama's on the porch yelling supper's hot, y'all come and get it
We yelled five more minutes

At sixteen it was twelve o three standing at her front door
Katie's dad said midnight, but we needed just a little more
Yellow light flipping on and off, interrupting that goodnight kissing
We wanted five more minutes

Time rolls by the clock don't stop
I wish I had a few more drops
Of the good stuff, the good times
Oh but they just keep on flying
Right on by like it ain't nothing
Wish I had me a pause button
Moments like those Lord knows I'd hit it
And give myself five more minutes

At eighteen turned my helmet in and walked to the fifty yard line
Just the coach and me after we lost eighteen to nine
And I cried man next time to get in here I'll have to buy a ticket
Can't you give me five more minutes

Time rolls by the clock don't stop
I wish I had a few more drops
Of the good stuff, the good times
Oh but they just keep on flying
Right on by like it ain't nothing
Wish I had me a pause button
Moments like those Lord knows I'd hit it
And give myself five more minutes

At eighty-six my grandpa said there's angels in the room
All the family gathered 'round knew the time was coming soon
With so much left to say I prayed Lord I ain't finished
Just give us five more minutes

Time rolls by the clock don't stop
I wish I had a few more drops
Of the good stuff, the good times
Oh but they just keep on flying
Right on by like it ain't nothing
Wish I had me a pause button
Moments like those Lord knows I'd hit it
Yeah sometimes this old life will leave you wishing
That you had five more minutes

Five more minutes

**************

Time goes fast...savor each  moment!!

Clothespins and BDSM

Clothespins can be a wonderful addition to BDSM play and are relatively easy to learn how to use. Many new comers to BDSM start with things like clothespins. Clothespins are usually used to give the sensation of pain to certain body parts. They can create many sensations and even increase the intensity of orgasm. With some caution and imagination clothespins can be used in any number of deviously enjoyable ways.

Most frequently, clothespins are used on the tits, especially on nipples. Clothespins can be placed on the nipples in many positions. You can start from clothespins pointing straight onto the nipple, not from the side, gripping the base of the nipple, not the tip. This does not have the same sort of ‘bite’ as grasping the nipple alone may, and often does wonderful things for sensitivity without causing pain. Pointing straight out is an especially deviant way to clothespin your partner.

You can clamp the nipple only, or work gradually out from the areola as your partner’s ability to enjoy more increases. The soft flesh under the nipple is a great place to experiment. You can also clothespin on sideways, with the nipple centered in the the hole in the clamping area. If you do this far enough back on the nipple base or areola, the tip of a large nipple will remain exposed for other things, such as ice, nibbling, or smaller clips and clamps.

The nipple is the classical place to begin practice of clothespin play.. But many areas of the body might do well with a bit of clamping either for sensation or visual appeal. There are other parts to decorate your body with clothespins such as inner thighs, the webbing between toes and fingers, scrotum, along the shaft of a penis, labias, clitoris, behind the knees and inside the elbows, and even the tonge. Generally, the clothespins can be used on any part of the body where you can ‘pinch’ up a fold of skin for the clothespins to grab.

A chain that runs through a pair or set of clothespins will add to the enjoyment. As your partner moves, the chain will cause the part of the body the clothespin is attached to move as well, creating a wonderful sensation of weight and pain. You can create a row, circle on the belly or back, a belt of clothespins round the waist, a circle round the thighs as a reminder to keep them spread, etc.

Don’t allow any clamping device to remain in place longer than 20 minutes maximum! The clothespins create the erotic sensations by cutting off the blood circulation. The whole idea of clamping is creating condensed erotic pain when the blood flow starts recirculating back into the unclamped tissues. When left in place too long, or placed where they can crush or damage tissue and internal structures, such as the delicate blood vessels of the penile shaft or the hood of the clitoris, watch out! Never clamp any piece of flesh near to dense blood vessels, to avoid damaging nerves, or internal structures, such as the corpus cavernosum and corpus spongiosum of the penis, and tissues of the clitoral hood in women. Any damage to these structures can be permanent and cause lifelong pain and suffering.

Stay safe and sane by removing the clothespins until you are more familiar with how your partner’s body responds to them.

Pulling off a clothespin is more painful than squeezing the legs to remove it gently. Taking the closthepins off causes a stronger rush of pain than putting them on. That’s because the blood is rushing back to that area of the body. If your partner is anxious, instruct him or her to take a deep breath and gently squeeze the legs of the wooden closthespin until it comes off.

Let's talk prostate stimulation!

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Yes, you should worship my sexy feet....yes you should give more to my feet....

I had a caller this morning almost entranced; talking about how he had to give more....more to my feet...yes..yes you should!!! and yes, yes you need to!! Click me splashing to treat me to a pedicure!!

Leg Tease Metronome -- play along

Facets of Mistress DJ

I am always intrigued when guys are surprised to find out or discover another facet of "me."

Examples:
include religious beliefs, experiences, musical taste, vanilla hobbies etc. So, to help you boys out here is a getting to know me!!

#1 Are you an animal lover or would you avoid keeping animals at home?

Are you kidding?? I am a crazy cat lady!! I also have two dogs...I would have more critters if I could figure out how!

#2 Do you like summer or winter?

Summer all the way -- I hate being cold.

#3 Would you diet or would you work out?

Work out, I like my food.

#4 What do you wear to bed?

If it's not snowy/cold outside: nothing or a t shirt -- if it's cooler a proper sexy nightie

#5 What’s your favorite clothing brand?

ummm??? *rattles brain trying to think of a brand* um there is a shirt -- gildian or something like that -- it's super soft -- got a t shirt from a fundraiser for livescifi...it's really really soft so whoever that company is.

#6 When was the last time you cried?

a few minutes ago -- watching the Revolution reunited shortly after Prince's death.

#7 Which color reflects your personality and why?

hmm -- rich brown, coral, sunny yellow -- sometimes black.

rich brown -- I'm down to earth -- coral - my name dawn has corals and pinks, sunny yellow I'm blonde and black is classic

#8 In the animal kingdom, which animal would you be?

hmmm something that sits up in a tree or in a cave and watches others

#9 Do you like tattoos and body piercing?

sure -- on other people.

#10 How much PDA is acceptable? 

depends on the situation

#11 How often do you take a shower?

shower?? maybe daily -- bath definitely daily

#12 What are your favorite magazines?

stuff with peoples true stories in them

#13 What are your favorite books?

Stephen king anything...yaya sisterhood is a favorite...

#14 What’s your favorite movie?

currently?? anything with either Anakin Skywalker or Darth Vader (Star Wars)

#15 What’s your favorite music you’re listening to these days?

Country - Blake Shelton

#16 What’s your favorite alcoholic drink?

I don't drink

#17 What’s your favorite vacation idea?

anywhere with a beach

#18 What’s your favorite food?

Toast, second round draft pick is cheese curds, third is chicken strips

#19 Who’s your favorite actor?

bullshit - I want three: James Spader, Joaquin Phoenix, Danny DeVito (there's probably more but I'd totally love to be the fluff in that fluffernutter sammich!)

#20 If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it?

Who are you and what do you know? I would turn it in to local authorities.

#21 Are you religious?

Yes, Sabbath keeping Christian (but not a member of any one "doctrine".)

#22 Are you a gizmo person?

like the gremlin? do I like fidget spinners? what the fuck?

I tinker sometimes? I don't know what this wants from me!!!

#23 What kind of sport do you like?

running, golf, football, basketball...

#24 Clubbing or candlelight dinner?

eesh?? those are my only picks??? I guess dinner...

#25 Earth Hour or Fourth of July fireworks?

Who writes these??? what is earth hour?? I guess fireworks though I don't like loud noises.

#26 Backpacking or a luxury hotel?

backpacking

#27 Christmas or Halloween?

Neither? I guess Christmas out of the two...

#28 Are you a morning person?

not. at. fucking. all.

#29 What’s your philosophy in life?

Try not to be a dick.

#30 When was the last time you were happy you lied?

Spared someone's feelings that wanted to go on a date.

#31 What comes to your mind when you think of your exes? 

Men can be unreliable and icky.

#32 Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

both at times?

#33 What’s your idea of romance?

spontaneous gestures. it doesn't fit in a box.

#34 Would you like to live in the countryside or in a metropolitan area?

I don't ever want to live in the city again.

#35 When did you lose your virginity?

oh jeez, next question??? I was in my 20's

#36 What’s your favorite body part of the opposite sex?

Eyes and brain (tie)

#37 What’s the wildest thing you’ve done sexually? 

Now, you're asking a Domme this! In the dungeon?? probably something that required the sybian or fucking machine (someone else) personally?? probably involved being outside...

#38 Do you think money can buy happiness?

not at all - usually causes more issues.

#39 The world would be a better place if…?

people were more empathetic

#40 Do you have any social causes that are close to your heart?

Animals, sex-trafficked people (not in the industry by choice), endangered species

#41 What do you do over the weekends?

Same thing I do everyday -- try to take over the world. Usually on Niteflirt -- housework, yard work...sit in the sun when it's around...

#42 Would you mind if I had a best friend of the opposite sex?

nah, if you were my partner -- you know where your bread is buttered.

#43 Which was the worst phase in your life?

high school

#44 What was the happiest moment in your life?

too many to count -- probably sometime dancing outside

#45 Do you judge a book by its cover?

a book book? maybe. People? no.

#46 What’s your political stance?

libertarian -- Morally I really could care less about what the fuck people want to do...it's all them...you want to marry same sex?  doesn't affect me. You didn't mean to get pregnant and want an abortion? doesn't affect me. Those choices affect parties involved...Financially I don't think the government should get 5% of what they currently take.

#47 Do you watch porn and what’s your view on it?

Sometimes -- usually sent to me -- it's overrated and sets people up for disappointment (expectations) it's a movie -- pretend...some of it's interesting I suppose...good way for people to convey to me what they like -- what I like in porn is pretty limited.

#48 Do you believe in karma?

oh yes, it's real. It's in every religion too.

#49 Do you plan your life or live for the moment?

Try to plan...but shit happens.

#50 Do you think life is fair?

I think life is what you make it.

#51 If you were marooned on an island, what are the five things you would take with you? 

the Bible, a way to have safe water (pot to boil or something) a way to make fire (flint/steel) a sharp tool (axe/machete etc) and a ready to go boat? lol

#52 Would you sulk or would you confront?

confront.

#53 Are you addicted to anything?

caffeine.

#54 Any current news that’s caught your attention?

government shutdown.

#55 What are your favorite apps that you use often?

line play, snoopy town, twitter, facebook

#56 Are you an optimist or a pessimist?

both.

#57 What do you have for breakfast?

varies daily -- today was oatmeal

#58 How often do you make your bed?

hee hee -- I have minions for that!! j/k I spread it up daily -- make it once a week when sheets get changed.

#59 If you knew you were right, would you take a stand even if you know you would make a scene in public or would you let it go?

call me ms scenemaker

#60 What’s an absolute no-no in a relationship?

unspoken infidelity.