The power of positive thinking.

If you put out into the world that the tax plan by 45 is catastrophic, that times are tough, that business is slow across the board...then you will reap something lacking in luster -- on the contrary if you put out a successful mindset, positivity, helpful and willingness to pull others up too...guess what is going to happen..

Every. Fucking. Time.

Try it...21 days (how long it takes to make a new habit) Show gratitude, show a positive outlook, do proactive things to better your situation...21 days...without fail. YOU WILL SEE A DIFFERENCE

Take a break with Bob Ross and me

Just listening to him is so peaceful. Take a break and enjoy!

You better work bitch.

Bring it on, ring the alarm
Don't stop now, just be the champion
Work it hard, like it's your profession
Watch out now, cause here it comes
Here comes the smasher, here comes the master
Here comes the big beat, big beat disaster
No time to quit now, just time to get it now
Pick up what I'm putting down
Pick up what I'm putting down
You want a hot body? You want a Bugatti?
You want a Maserati? You better work bitch
You want a Lamborghini? Sippin' martinis?
Look hot in a bikini? You better work bitch
You wanna live fancy? Live in a big mansion?
Party in France?
You better work bitch,

This is a reminder for myself -- or for whoever needs the motivation:

Santa Baby.....Gwen Stefani is set to be the next Christmas Queen.

So super kawaii!!! (that means cute)


You make it feel like Christmas with Blake Shelton....

Can't believe with the length of her career (including No Doubt) that she is just releasing a cd...but totally worth the wait.

Thanks for the great music Gwen.

a rant about's rarely that I do it ....but

Ok first...

Peegate...he had to go to Russia to pay to get peed on?!?!

C'mon make America great again!!!! Hit a LEGAL repeat LEGAL brothel in the money...done and done discreetly!!!


now...about the tax code...

about health care....

about your racist ways....

about you grabbing them by the pussy....

Lily Allen - Fuck you (official) from AB/CD/CD on Vimeo.

Can a woman commit rape?

Of course.

The Mantra of the BDSM community is safe, sane, CONSENSUAL.

Read that last line again!

CONSENSUAL That said, it is in the news today that Melanie Martinez, a musician ALLEGEDLY raped a long time friend, also female, with a sex toy.

From Wikipedia: Assault by forcible stimulation of female genitalia by a female perpetrator is possible by digital manipulation, oral sex, strap-ons, other dildos or other foreign objects, or tribadism. A telephone survey conducted in 2010 for the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that 43.8% of lesbians reported having been raped, physically abused or stalked at some point by an intimate partner; of these, 67.4% reported the perpetrator or perpetrators as being exclusively female. In the same survey, approximately 1 in 8 lesbians (13.1%) reported having been raped in their lifetime, but the sex of their rapists was not reported.
A 2005 survey by the California Coalition Against Sexual Assault (CALCASA) concluded that one in three lesbian-identified participants had been sexually assaulted by a woman. Fear of coming out, distrust of and/or indifference and hostility by the police, unwillingness to turn in members of the LGBT community, and a sense that female on female rape is not taken as seriously as rape by men causes some victims to be reluctant to report rapes by other women. In one publicized case involving students at Smith College in 2005, two women were charged with the rape of another, but the victim ultimately refused to testify, and charges were dropped.

That said, regardless that she's female and a known musician -- she shouldn't get a pass if she's guilty.

This FemmeDomme Music Video thought?! U was cracking up when she smacked them in the head!!! Click for the web's best phone sex on

oi this next generation -- millennials seriously need a waaambulance and a tissue for their issue!

GREENWICH, NEVADA For 20-something kinkster Roy Humbert, “flogging is something the older guys do. We prefer to dig into the meat of it, which is trying to “one up” each other in the kitchen at our local dungeon.”
The new rage in dungeons across the United States has been coming from the younger generation who prefer to talk about playing, rather than actually doing it. Frequently dressed in street clothes and having only a few months experience in the scene, they have strong opinions about techniques and relationships.
Tiffany Skip, an 18 year old submissive, tells The Daily Flogger, “you can really learn a lot from listening to these guys. They really sound like they know their stuff and they speak very loudly. That is dominance. It makes me tingle.”
Martin McKenzie, a 23 year old Master explained “Floggers are expensive. Talk is cheap. Only an idiot spends that kind of money on toys when you can sit around and brag about your skills for nothing.”
After one lengthy discussion of the various features of different kinds of leather, one dominant was forced to concede that he doesn’t really know how to flog, but has read extensively about it.
Many from the older generation simply don’t get it. “It isn’t rocket science. You just swing the flogger and hit a person. I don’t understand what the issue is,” lamented Master Kevin, a longtime member of the dungeon.

I mean really..."talk about flogging?"
*article from the Daily Flogger*

Dick pics? Size Matters?? Oh My!!!

First off, I get called a "Size Queen" as I've voiced my preference for larger endowments. It's said to me as if it's supposed to be an insult...wait, not let me get this's ok for guys to oogle and desire big-tittay girls...BUT let a woman voice her preference for an "Above Average" penis...and all hell breaks loose. So let me begin my penis manifesto: Do you guys have a handbook or something? I suppose due to the line of work for some reason you consider it acceptable to send me a "dick pick" in various stages of arousal or flaccidity...yeah...ew...most of the times it shows remnants that you've been masturbating too. Double ew. now let us discuss "average" versus what you fellows seem to consider magnificent: While results vary slightly across reputable studies, the consensus is that the mean human penis, when erect, is in the range 12.9–15 cm (5.1–5.9 in) in length with a 95% confidence interval of (10.7 cm, 19.1 cm) or, equivalently (4.23 in, 7.53 in) — that is, it is 95% certain that the true mean is at least 10.7 cm but not more than 19.1 cm


Objectophilia is a fetished form of sexuality focused on inanimate objects. Usually the object of lust is a specific item or a couple -- not just random items. People that have this sexualized object preference may have feelings of lust, attraction, love, and even seemingly have a relationship to or with certain items or structures relative to their focus. One must wonder if there is a slippery slope with sex toys, blow up dolls and fetishes for items like shoes, panties etc.

I personally want to call it "Nounophillia"